Being and Looking Healthy and Fit Isn’t One-Size-Fits All

“Things aren’t always what they seem”

I think the image and desired appearance, in its most general sense, of what it means to be fit and healthy has long been skewed. For guys, it’s having muscles without too much fat, for ladies, it’s being thin but not looking too muscular.

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No sucking in, no posing – just five days of minimal food.

This image isn’t always accurate mostly because what’s fit and healthy varies based on the person. A person doesn’t have to fit inside a perfect box of being this lean or this strong to be healthy and fit.

I was reminded of this recently. After having a horrible stomach flu that prevented me from running and eating much of anything for five days, naturally it came with a loss of inches and weight.

On that fifth day, I was down to 141 pounds – a weight I haven’t been in years. A pair of my pants that were normally a bit big were so spacious I needed a belt. And I felt weak and unhealthy. I went for a five-mile run and, while it went okay, I didn’t feel my best.

Fast forward to Saturday that week, four days later, I was (presumably) back to my normal weight of 147 pounds and my stomach was noticeably rounder. And I felt strong and healthy. I went for a 20-mile run and, while the heat was really tough on me – and, let’s be real, 20 miles is still 20 miles – I felt pretty good.

My lowest weight in years. My stomach flatter and without bloat. My pants loose. On the surface, that probably seems high-five worthy and the gold standard by which most would believe is the achievement of my healthiest and fittest. But it was actually unhealthy and weak.

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Same spot, noticeably rounder, much happier.

I’m at my best when I weigh a bit more and my belly is full and fueled. And it’s about more than how I look; my resting heart rate is in the 40s, my blood pressure is low, and my stress management skills are quite good. I’m strong enough to toss around my one-year-old son and train for a marathon while mom-ing and working for a living.

With temps in the mid-70s before 6 a.m. I bravely ran in just a sports bra, something I’ve been historically uncomfortable doing, my belly back to it’s regularly, flabby self.

I think a lot of the skewed perception has to do with social media. I mean, you don’t see fitness professionals or even the wannabes sharing anything but the most perfect images. The ones with perfect lighting, perfect posing, and likely taken after a fast. Not to knock them and, for some, that typical super-fit image is probably what’s right for them. But it’s not for everyone and I hope this is a reminder to always strive for what makes you feel your best, not how you think you should look.

At 147 pounds, a stomach that carried a baby and loves food, and everything fitting just right, I may not look like the vision of health and fit…but it’s right where I want to be.

Do you believe the vision of healthy and fit has been skewed by pop culture and social media? Do you set goals based on pants size and weight, or on how strong and good you feel? The comments are for you so please leave one. Or, connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

Wednesday Wisdom – Wellness Advice for June 5…and Global Running Day

Welcome to another round of #wednesdaywisdom. This is wellness, health, and fitness advice in a quick, easy-to-digest format, designed to give you maximum energy and inspiration.

Think of it as a sweet potato…only as words.

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Happy Global Running Day!

As an extra-fun tie-in, it’s also Global Running Day! Happiest of days to all my fellow runners out there and I hope you enjoy some special running-themed wisdom:

1. Five Reasons to Run Without Headphones
One of my favorite blogs of all-time. There’s so much we get out of running. Here are five reasons to run without headphones and really soak it all in.

2. You Might Be a Runner
I dug waaayyy into the archives for this one – we should almost call this post #waybackwednesday. This gem reminds you that, no matter how fast or how far, you are a runner. And for fun, 10 signs you might be a runner.

3. The Thing That Sucks Worse Than Running
My most recent blog felt like the perfect close to this month’s Wednesday Wisdom. Do you ‘have to’ do things or do you ‘get to’ do them? Here’s why swapping ‘have to’ with ‘get to’ is a game-changer.

Do you have questions or topics I can address with a #wednesdaywisdom blog or in a new, full blog? The comments are all yours to ask questions, share ideas, or, you know, just leave a comment – so do it, please! Or, connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

The Thing That Sucks Worse Than Running

“Replace ‘have to’ with ‘get to’ for a change in perspective.”

Some people think running sucks. I respectfully disagree but I’m not here to have that argument. For the sake of this blog, we’re all in agreement that running is good.

For those who don’t agree and stand firm on the notion of running as a suckfest, allow me to share with you what sucks worse than running – not running.

Whether you’re in the thick of race training or simply enjoy going for a good run, there are few things in this world that suck worse than not running. FOMOR, Fear of Missing Out on Running, is real.

While I don’t mean this to be another blog about finding the good in bad situations, it’s sort of going that direction. But I promise there’s no fake “motivation” message or anything like that.

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Sick day snuggles with the culprit who gave it to me.

Last week, I was minding my own business, enjoying peak week for Grandma’s Marathon and getting ready for my 20-miler on Saturday. After a legit 18-miler the weekend before, I was feeling confident and excited – and a little nervous and dreading it, of course.

Then, out of nowhere, the stomach flu hit me. And I mean HIT me.

Whether it’s because I’m getting older, I’ve been training hard, I have a one-year-old to care for, and a combination of several factors that perhaps add up to I don’t really have it all together as I like to think, this one hit me like a ton of bricks.

I could barely get out of bed the first two days. I had zero interest in eating. I attempted to work a bit both days and I could barely get anything done. It was bad.

Throughout all the Pepto, forced fluids, and trips to the bathroom, I couldn’t help feeling the worst about the inevitable fact: there’d be no 20-miler for me on Saturday. And, as it would turn out, Sunday wasn’t in the cards either.

As I started to feel a bit better on Saturday, I felt the worst about not being out there putting in my miles. It’s one thing to have to take a sick day from work, it’s worse having to take one from running…on the biggest run of the training period.

Saturday was so hard and I felt pretty down for most of it.

Yes, nearly every time, the thing that sucks most about running is not being able to do it.

But, as we must do with everything in life, it’s all about perspective and focusing on what we can control vs. falling into the trap of sorryness for what we can’t.

What it all means is we’re now looking at peak week: take two. I’ll refocus efforts, look at the past few days as unplanned but valuable rest, and go for my longest long run on Saturday. It also means I start my taper a week later, something I’ve done before and I can do again.

If nothing else, I hope this experience will make my 20-miler a little bit better. Don’t get me wrong, parts of it will still suck. I mean, it’s still running 20 miles in June. I’m not here to pretend that’s going to be all Reese’s and Cheez-Its.

But there will be even more gratitude about the opportunity that I get to be out there vs. feeling like I have to be out there. A good dose of perspective.

Have you ever been in this situation, missing a run or workout when you really wanted to do it? The comments are for you so please leave one. Or connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

Four Easy Things to do for Better Wellness

“Go big or go home – cool, I’ll go home and take a nap.”

When most people set goals, they go big, jump in headfirst, take a big bite. This is especially true in the wellness world. Must meal plan and prep every week. Must run a 5k. Must meditate 10 minutes every day.

It’s easy to get caught up in the big stuff and think achieving those big goals is the only way to be well. Truth is, there are some big wellness strides one can take by doing small, easy things.

Here are four simple steps you can take right now for better wellness.

1. Drink Water
Water is so simple yet so important.

First, there’s the scientific health benefits of drinking water like improved brain function and a happy colon and kidneys.

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My latest, greatest water bottle to keep up the hydration game

Then there’s the added good water does, like it’s proven to boost energy levels and metabolism, prevent headaches, and enhance physical performance, important for a labor-intensive job or tough work out.

It also aids in natural detox of the body – no absurd juice, lemonade, or broth cleanses necessary.

There’s zero argument anyone can make against drinking lots of water. And it’s so easy to do it. So do it.

2. Move Intentionally
Movement matters – but it’s not necessary to run 10 miles to get the wellness benefits of moving. Movement should be part of every day life.

Going for a walk, using the stairs, even choosing a parking space far away from the door are all simple ways to move more. They’re small steps that add up.

Notice I added “intentionally” to this tip. A lot of fitness tips advise doing squats while brushing your teeth, stretch while in the shower, or do lunges in your cubicle while catching up on emails.

Um, does anyone actually do this sort of nonsense? I do not believe this is advice that’s fit for real life. To each their own but I don’t advise trying to do double duty on adding more movement to your day. It’s not that hard to move your body, it doesn’t need this level of overthinking. If you honestly can’t make time, 15 minutes, in your day to do cardio, surely you can make the effort to walk, take stairs, or do something.

This ties closely to another belief I have that goes against multitasking. I believe in being present and focused, and just do what you’re doing.

Brush your teeth while you’re brushing your teeth. Shower while you’re showering. And do work while you’re at work. There’s no need to do other things while you’re already doing something…

3. One Thing At a Time
…Which leads to the next point – just do one thing at a time.

In our over-scheduled, always so busy, social media-driven world, apparently we can’t do just one thing anymore. We must multitask to get more done rather than set boundaries on commitments. We must cram in activities because there’s not enough time rather than plan and prioritize that time.

And, apparently, we must film a concert to share on social media rather than, oh I don’t know, enjoy the damn concert – that one I seriously don’t get. Please stop it.

Okay, now I’m not saying you can never multitask. It has its place in the day. But more often than not, let yourself to focus on one thing at a time.

On a related note, here’s why to disconnect and put down your phone for better health.

Be present. Enjoy moments. Focus on your work, your friend, or simply just be. Not only is this an easy-to-implement wellness tip, it’s a simple, yet giant step towards mindfulness and even meditation, if that’s the end goal.

4. Be Grateful
Finally, let’s talk about the wellness benefits of gratitude. Again, the proven benefits of showing gratitude are better physical and emotional health. Additional benefits are better sleep and greater mental strength.

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Grateful for friendship and coffee.

Then there’s the improved self-esteem that comes from taking a moment to be grateful. Social media traps us into focusing on what others have, what they’re doing, or why their life is so great (or the appearance of all). Instead, let’s put the focus back on ourselves, what we have, the great things we’ve done, or why we really do have it pretty good.

Similar with multitasking, I’m not advising to ditch social media entirely – I mean, chances are you found this post through social media (thank you for reading). And I absolutely want to see photos of your dog in my feed. But always remember that someone else’s positives don’t take away from yours – or, really, even affect yours.

You don’t have to keep a gratitude journal and write in it every day – though I personally do enjoy gratitude journaling. But make the effort to recognize something you’re grateful for every day. It’s good for you, it’s easy, and I promise you have enough to fill that journal if you decide to take it to that level.

What would you add to this list? What’s a simple, daily habit you’ve taken that has positively impacted your wellness? The comments are for you so please leave one. Or connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

When Just Showing Up is a Victory

“Step up, show up, never give up”

I’ve been known to be competitive, both with myself and with others. Part of it is I enjoy pushing to always be my best, even when it comes to workouts. The other part is I believe competing against others makes us better.

Occasionally, though, a win can come in a different way, a non-competitive one. This is especially true in the running community and I saw it on display at yesterday’s Fargo Marathon.

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A personal best & top 10 finish – my aunt Mary achieved two wins.

For a small group of people, a win is the actual win – those who compete against others to win their respective race, whether full marathon, 5k, or something in between. For others, a win might be a personal one – those who compete against themselves to beat their best race time. And for, I imagine a large group yesterday, the win wasn’t competitive at all. At 45 degrees, 20 MPH winds, and continuous rain, the win was simply choosing to show up and run.

At yesterday’s Fargo half marathon, I found myself in that last group of people, except the weather was the least of my concerns. For me, the win was simply getting thru the miles and finishing the race.

Last week, I began having issues with my IT band, causing some pretty nasty pain on my 18-miler. The pain persisted in small doses through my training runs all week, making me hella-nervous for Saturday’s half marathon.

What was supposed to be a nice, low-mileage training run, an opportunity to run fast, became a training run mixed with caution and fear. After a couple of early knee pains, I knew it wasn’t going to be an easy run or fast run kind of day. I quickly went from, “Maybe it’ll be okay and I’ll be able to race,” to “OMG, please just let me not have to drop out from injury.”

After those early pains, I adjusted my speed and shortened my stride. I ended up having a great run and I felt strong. My finish time was nowhere near close to a PR and slower than what I’ve been training at thus far. But, for me, it was a victory.

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Nothing winning about this race, except that I finished without injury.

Best of all, I barely noticed the weather. It probably sounds lame, but I was so grateful to be out there running vs. injured and sidelined, I don’t think any weather would’ve gotten me down. It’s amazing what mindset can do.

But back to what I realized yesterday. A win can mean something different to everyone, especially in running, but also in life. Sometimes, we win by being the best, by competing to be better than anyone else or a former version of ourselves. Other times, we win simply by stepping up, showing up, and never giving up.

Speaking of showing up, while I offer congrats to all the runners who showed up and ran in some pretty nasty weather, a massive shoutout goes to all the race volunteers and spectators who showed up. It’s one thing to run in bad weather. We’re runners, we willingly sign up for sufferfests. But it’s quite another to stand out in the elements all day to cheer and help us through it.

If you volunteered or cheered and you weren’t one of the people I shouted “thank you for coming out!” at during the race, Id like to thank you now. THANK YOU for showing up.

Do you believe that there’s victory simply in showing up? The comments are for you, I already got to share my story, so please share yours. Or, connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

A Running Recommendation I Would Not Make for Marathon Training

“Well, that was a bad idea.”

I’m usually all-for recommending running-related things I’ve tried. I recommend my best foods for runners. I recommend hill training include both incline and decline work. I recommend, yes, you should sign up for that race.

Last week, I discovered one thing I would not recommend – something I myself did that, while good in theory, ended up being one of my less-than-greatest ideas.

On Thursday, I looked ahead at the weekend weather, as I do, almost obsessively, every week to plan my long run. It was looking to be windy and rainy, a bummer for my planned 18-miler. That’s too much to do on a treadmill so I figured I’d just have to suck it up and try to enjoy the whipping gusts and being pelted in the face.

As I was looking at the hour-by-hour forecast, I noticed Friday morning looked perfect – mid 30s and practically no wind. I came up with the grand plan that I would run my 18 miles Friday morning, before work, instead of saving it for the weekend – believe me, there’s good reason to save long runs for the weekend…more on that to come.

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I know I’m not the only one whose alarm has looked like this.

In order to give myself enough time to wake up, run, and still be ready to go to work for the day, I figured I’d need to get up at 3:45 a.m.

Surely this wasn’t that bad an idea. I’ve done long runs on Friday mornings before – though the longest I recall was 12 miles. I’ve also gotten up early to get in miles before work – though it had been awhile since I’d been up before 5 for any kind of workout.

But, again, certainly this wasn’t that bad an idea.

It indeed was a bad idea.

Not only did I severely underestimate the time I’d need to complete the run – bathroom breaks, gel pit stop, unexpected knee pain slow-down – I also underestimated the time I’d need to stretch, then shuffle myself around to get ready for the day. Apparently one doesn’t move as quickly after an 18-miler with barely any sleep than a normal morning.

In addition to making my morning routine stressful, I knew a crash would come at some point in the day – and it would be a big one. Despite my effort to go to bed at 9:15, I got very little sleep. Coupled with the fact that running 18 miles is, you know, more than slightly fatiguing, I started really crashing right after lunch.

On top of that, there’s an unavoidable stiffness and soreness that comes with an 18-miler – unless maybe you’re Gwen Jorgenson or someone equally elite. Even with my efforts to get up from my desk, move around, and stretch, I was uncomfortable for much of the day.

In conclusion, I do not recommend getting up at 3:45 and running 18 miles before going to work.

The only silver lining was I got my run done and in perfect weather. It was worth it…but I still don’t think I’d make the decision again.

Who am I kidding, I’d sign up for that sufferfest again if it meant I got better weather and the satisfaction of having my long run done before the weekend. Tiredness and pain and all, I had quite a bit of satisfaction throughout the day on Friday. But I still wouldn’t recommend it.

Remember when I wrote awhile back about how runners are crazy? I think I just made another case for that…

Is there something running-related you would not recommend, based on your own experience? Share in the comments or connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

Wednesday Wisdom – Real Life Wellness Advice for May 8

“A quick round-up of thoughts and articles for being well.”

Welcome to Wednesday Wisdom, real-life wellness, health, and fitness advice in a simple, easy-to-digest format, designed to give you maximum energy and inspiration.

If this blog post were food, it would be toast with banana and peanut butter.

Because it’s marathon and general race season, here are my three top wellness topics for today:

1. What to Expect from a Marathon, How to Train for a Marathon, and How to Run a Marathon

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Running the Fargo Marathon

I break down a marathon in chunks of the race to help guide you through the process and give you a great experience running a marathon. It includes info from all three posts in the series: what to expect from a marathon, how to train for a marathon, and how to run a marathon.

2. Five Tips for Your First Half Marathon

Full marathoners, I’m not just sharing tips for you – those who have questions about running your first half marathon, this one is for. A quick post for all you first-time half marathon runners or even those of you veteran runners who are looking for some encouragement or advice.

3. Taper Goals for Marathon Training

This is not your typical taper post. Here’s a thought for how to make the best of a taper and improving overall wellness with a good habit.

Do you have questions or topics I can address with a #wednesdaywisdom blog or in a new, full blog? The comments are all yours to ask questions, share ideas, or, you know, just leave a comment – so do it, please! Or, connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

More Wellness with Wednesday Wisdom

“There’s wisdom of the head and wisdom of the heart.”

Wow, if you love alliteration, you’re probably losing it over the title of this wellness blog post.

Last week, a random thought while running got me thinking about the stories I share on this blog. While all are rooted in my opinions and experiences, I do believe there’s a good dose of solid advice – even a little wisdom – in most as well.

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Lots of my wisdom comes from eating Reese’s. It’s true.

In that spirit, I’m launching a new feature on the blog. A quick ‘round-up’ style post that takes some of my favorite, reader favorite, or top-of-mind posts and breaks them down into a sentence or two. Quick bits of Wednesday Wisdom in a short, easy read.

Because this thought came to me randomly while running – this happens a lot and it’s fantastic; it’s also why I don’t run with headphones – I missed kicking it off on the first Wednesday of this month.

But good ideas are good ideas, no matter when they happen, so I’ll get things going this Wednesday. Fun fact: this Wednesday is also my birthday. Between free food, a run, and a new blog post, I’ll be about as happy as they come.

In the meantime, a quick reminder to new readers or those who have read a few stories: My thoughts, opinions, and wisdom are all based on experience. I’m self-taught in the wellness world; I have no formal training. If you’re looking for like-minded wisdom from an actual professional in the industry, I suggest following my pal, @JoeFitness on Twitter or @JoeFitness on Facebook.

Please let know if there are questions or topics I can address with a #wednesdaywisdom blog or in a new, full blog. The comments are all yours to ask questions, share ideas, or, you know, just leave a comment – so do it, please! Or, connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

The Challenge to Define What’s Healthy Food and What’s Not Healthy Food

“Food is fuel…or sometimes, it just makes us happy.”

As a health and wellness enthusiast, I get asked a lot of questions related to being healthy. Among my favorite – yet, least favorite – are questions about food.

“Is being a vegetarian healthy?”
“What’s a healthy pre-race meal I should eat?”
“Can you recommend a healthy protein bar?”
“Is this [insert food] healthy?”

You get the idea. I say these are my favorite questions because I love food. I say these are my least favorite questions because…well, I love food.

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Sugar, carbs – but I’ll make the case for healthy

Confused? Stick with me, I’ll explain.

When it comes to “healthy” food, I’ve come to the conclusion there is no right or wrong answer. Personally, I’m a fan of inclusivity, the idea that no food should be off-limits and encourages one to eat any food in moderation. Yes, eat all.the.foods.

The problem in trying to define healthy food is the term has become subjective because there’s no one-size-fits-all model of what it means to be healthy. I think we’re all striving for our own version of what healthy means and there are a lot of variations of healthy, especially when it comes to food.

One person can make the argument that a salad is healthy while another can point out why it’s not.
One person can tell you why being vegan is healthy while another can support the argument that eating meat, eggs, and dairy foods offers more health benefits.
Hell, I could make the argument why a donut is a healthy food choice and I could stand behind it 100%. My pal and awesome runner, Tom Donaldson, would be my expert witness if we ever went to trial.

My point is, what’s “healthy” for one person might not be for another person because we all have different goals. We all have our own personal baseline for healthy and it can look greatly different than someone else’s.

I’ll use myself as an example. I’m training for a marathon and I lift once or twice a week. My weight and muscle-to-fat balance are appropriate for my genetics and frame. But I’ll never be skinny. I’ll never have a flat stomach. I eat to fuel my body to run, lift, focus at work, and be happy so I’m a good wife and mother. I don’t cut calories or deprive myself of foods I enjoy to lose weight or my gut.

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Pre-run or post-run, Jimmy John’s fuels me to be my best.

Back to that “healthy” donut argument – while I could make the argument and stand behind it, I’ll admit it would be a thin one. A better way to make my point is with more realistic examples.

For me, a waffle with peanut butter and half a banana is a healthy breakfast.
For me, a veggie-filled pita with cheese and hummus, a peach, and a protein bar is a healthy lunch.
For me, Greek yogurt is a healthy snack.
For me, eggs on avocado toast with a baked potato and ice cream for dessert is a healthy dinner.

Those foods fuel my goals, my happiness, and give me a feeling of balance. For me, those are healthy foods.

For someone trying to cut carbs and sugar, or lose weight, most of that food is not healthy. It’s not so much that it’s not healthy (weeelll, I may be stretching that statement with the ice cream), it’s more that it doesn’t support that person’s goals of what he or she define as healthy or what would make them healthy.

Another point that comes into play is frequency. Back again to the argument I can make for a donut being healthy – it doesn’t stand up if I’m trying to plead the case for eating a donut every day. Me eating ice cream for dessert to give me some healthy balance and happiness? Yes…but No, if I’m putting down a pint every night.

I’ve thought about this idea of defining healthy a lot, especially when I’m asked about if a certain food is healthy. An event that happened at work last week inspired me to finally write about it.

Our office participated in National Walk at Lunch Day. After the walk, our wellness committee told us a variety of healthy snacks would be offered. We were provided an apple, a standard protein bar, and a high-protein granola bar.

For the person avoiding sugar, none of these snacks would be healthy. For most people, the nutrients, fiber, and protein offerings between the three absolutely qualifies them as healthy. Add to the fact they’re all tasty snacks that would be a better nutritional choice than what’s offered in a vending machine, further makes them healthy snacks.

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All the snacks. I want ALL the snacks.

Side note: I happily took one of each snack to parcel out and enjoy at my leisure later on.

My final point in this struggle to define healthy food is that we, as a society, particularly “experts” trained in the fields of nutrition, can’t even agree on what foods are healthy.

Expert #1: Fruit is healthy!
Expert #2: Nope, fruit has too much sugar, so fruit is not healthy.

Expert #1: Milk is healthy!
Expert #2: Actually, dairy is now, in fact, not good for you, so milk is not healthy.

Expert #1: Vegetables are healthy!
Expert #2: Not so fast – carrots, corn, and potatoes are too starchy so they’re really not healthy.

Expert #1: Eggs are healthy!
Expert #2: Nope, egg yolks have too much cholesterol, so eggs are not healthy.
Expert #3: Whole eggs may not be healthy, but egg whites are healthy!
Expert #4: Nope, you don’t get enough protein from egg whites alone, so egg whites are not healthy.

O.M.Effing.G. And don’t even get me started on the push to swap regular foods for the latest healthy food or superfood – you know, the ones that really aren’t swaps, like kale chips. Swapping kale chips for Baked Lays surely will save me calories but will also make me sad and unfulfilled.

Side note: Please stop with the kale. No kale. No kale, ever, no thank you. #teamspinach all the way.

Health, like wellness, is more than a number on the scale, pants size, or daily macros. Health is what makes you feel good, your best. For the most part, what are generally accepted as healthy foods like apples, salads, and veggies are going to make up the bulk of my diet because eating those types of foods make me feel good, my best, and I imagine this is the case for most people.

Typically, I feel much better after snacking on an apple vs. a donut. For the most part, I’ll have more energy eating something like a veggie-filled pita for lunch vs. pizza. But not always…not always. Some days, especially during marathon season, I want the donut. Or the pizza. And I feel great after. There’s a place for all in my healthy lifestyle.

What are your thoughts on the healthy food discussion? Are there foods you believe to be healthy for all and those that should be avoided at all costs? The comments are your space to share thoughts so please do so. Or, connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

Yes, You Can Run a Marathon – Here’s Why

“It always seems impossible until it’s done.”

Training for a marathon is something.

There’s the obvious stuff. You get up before dawn to run for an hour before work. You eat more food that you ever thought possible. You sacrifice happy hours, sleeping in on Saturdays, and toenails. All because you voluntarily signed up to run 26.2 miles…and paid a chunk of change to do it.

Yes, people think runners are crazy and sometimes, stepping back to look at the big picture, I get it.

But one of the things I love most about training, marathon training especially – and why I suspect others jump into the same sufferfest-filled boat – is it proves what we’re capable of doing. It’s also why I wrote a controversial blog that sparked a big Facebook debate a couple years ago about my frustration of a local runner making a big show of himself for not training. For that story read: don’t run a marathon without training.

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Each week I made it thru the miles is a victory – when it’s hot out, an extra-big victory.

I remember the first time I ran a half marathon. After finishing, I thought to myself, “I could never run a full – another 13.1 miles, no way!”

I remember thinking something similar when I trained for my first marathon. “Wow, that 14-miler was brutal. No way can I do more next Saturday.”

I remember hearing this from numerous runner friends who had tackled the half marathon but not yet the full marathon. “I can do the half but there’s no way I can run double that.”

But the thing with marathon training is you can – you can run the full, you can do more, you can double the mileage you once thought to be your maximum capacity.

One week you’re exhausted after your first 10-miler, a few weeks later you put in 16 miles, then soon after that, you stop your watch after hitting 20 miles – or, if you’re like me, 20.2 miles – with the ultimate feeling of satisfaction.

The whole 20.2 miles, that’s another story. Feel free to read: why to run the .2 when training for a marathon.

Back to marathon training. Those miles, right? All.Those.Miles.

The thing is, tho, they’re a build-up; I wouldn’t say a gradual build-up, as it seems to escalate quickly, especially after that first double-digit run. But somehow, we do it. We build our endurance. We manage to hit those goals. And we push ourselves to add another mile or two the next week.

Yes, training for a marathon is something. It’s something that, as I write this, I’m in the midst of – how about you?

Special shoutout to Maggie and Kate who are in the thick of training for their first full marathon. I’m excited to see you ladies at the start line of Grandma’s Marathon in a few weeks – and, more importantly, celebrate your victory after.

What’s a lesson you’ve learned from training for a marathon? Is there a nugget of wisdom you picked up training for a 5k, 10k, or half? The comments are all about you so please leave one. Or, connect with me on Twitter @LindsayIRL.

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